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  • By: Sandra L. Brown MA
  • Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
  • Length: 8 hrs and 51 mins
  • 4.4 out of 5 stars (24 ratings)

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How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved

By: Sandra L. Brown MA
Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
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In How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved, Sandra L. Brown, MA, describes eight types of dangerous men, their specific traits, and characteristics. She explores victim's stories that tell how they came in contact with each type of dangerous man and their outcome. Brown then presents how to develop a defense strategy - how to spot, avoid, or rid themselves of this type of dangerous man. Brown explains women's innate "red flag" systems - how they work to signal impending danger, and why many women learn to ignore them. With red flags in hand, Brown then guides the listeners through their own personal experiences to develop a personalized "Do Not Date" list. With these tools, Brown shows women how they can spot and avoid patterns of engagement with dangerous men.

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Great guide and self reflection tools

This book is an excellent narrative which supports looking inward to what you are willing to tolerate, why you believe you should put up with that behaviour and how to recognise and name the types of abuse. The book provides fundamental nformation to recognise if you are suffering at the hands of someone with pathology which makes any really change almost impossible and will hopefully equip readers with the ability to see red flags early and get out of harms way.

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Game changer

I just we listed to this book in one hit and plan to go back and listen again in smaller chunks to properly absorb it. As a woman who has recently left a relationship with a “sex addict” and has a string of bad relationships under my belt…this book resonated so much with me!

It can feel like a slap in the face, as it really does make you look at your part in it all, and I don’t mean in any victim blaming way, I mean in the most empowering sense. If we don’t see our part in landing ourselves here, and we are helpless then we will most likely find ourselves here time and time again. So it’s about learning to recognise red flags before we get involved. When we are ourselves with awareness we can enter into everything eyes wide open and fully consenting.

It also helped me understand why I’ve previously missed red flags completely or why I had ignored them. This is where the work begins for me.

This book is an absolute game changer!

Or only her other books as available on audio too!

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Fantastic read for all women!!

I wish that I had this book years ago. All young women should have this book and treat it like a bible.

Thank you Sandra x

Donna from Tasmania

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Valuable information for anyone in the dating game

I found this book very informative. It contains information about all sorts of relationships...not just violent relationships and I highly recommend it for all women.

I will definitely be listening to this again.

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MUST READ!!!!!

This book was amazing, iv dated so many dangerous men in my life and this book helped me see why? And how to absolutely never do it again🙏🏼

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A great read

This book is a great insight towards evaluating how to foresee future suitors and how to take accountability in letting harmful individuals in your life.

Read it twice

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Highly recommend

I wish I had this book 10 years ago. It would have saved me from my abusive marriage.

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