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  • Everything Happens for a Reason

  • And Other Lies I've Loved
  • By: Kate Bowler
  • Narrated by: Kate Bowler
  • Length: 4 hrs and 32 mins
  • 4.3 out of 5 stars (41 ratings)

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Everything Happens for a Reason

By: Kate Bowler
Narrated by: Kate Bowler
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Publisher's Summary

New York Times best seller

"A meditation on sense-making when there's no sense to be made, on letting go when we can't hold on, and on being unafraid even when we're terrified." (Lucy Kalanithi)

"Belongs on the shelf alongside other terrific books about this difficult subject, like Paul Kalanithi's When Breath Becomes Air and Atul Gawande's Being Mortal." (Bill Gates)

Named one of the best books of the year by Real Simple

Kate Bowler is a professor at Duke Divinity School with a modest Christian upbringing, but she specializes in the study of the prosperity gospel, a creed that sees fortune as a blessing from God and misfortune as a mark of God's disapproval. At 35, everything in her life seems to point toward "blessing". She is thriving in her job, married to her high school sweetheart, and loves life with her newborn son.

Then she is diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer.

The prospect of her own mortality forces Kate to realize that she has been tacitly subscribing to the prosperity gospel, living with the conviction that she can control the shape of her life with "a surge of determination". Even as this type of Christianity celebrates the American can-do spirit, it implies that if you "can't do" and succumb to illness or misfortune, you are a failure. Kate is very sick, and no amount of positive thinking will shrink her tumors. What does it mean to die, she wonders, in a society that insists everything happens for a reason? Kate is stripped of this certainty only to discover that without it, life is hard but beautiful in a way it never has been before.

Frank and funny, dark and wise, Kate Bowler pulls the reader deeply into her life in an account she populates affectionately with a colorful, often hilarious retinue of friends, megachurch preachers, relatives, and doctors. Everything Happens for a Reason tells her story, offering up her irreverent, hard-won observations on dying and the ways it has taught her to live. 

Praise for Everything Happens for a Reason:

“I fell hard and fast for Kate Bowler. Her writing is naked, elegant, and gripping - she’s like a Christian Joan Didion. I left Kate’s story feeling more present, more grateful, and a hell of a lot less alone. And what else is art for?” (Glennon Doyle, number-one New York Times best-selling author of Love Warrior and president of Together Rising)

©2018 Kate Bowler (P)2018 Random House Audio

Critic Reviews

"I fell hard and fast for Kate Bowler. Her writing is naked, elegant, and gripping - she's like a Christian Joan Didion. I left Kate's story feeling more present, more grateful, and a hell of a lot less alone. And what else is art for? Everything Happens for a Reason is art in its highest form, and Kate Bowler is a true artist - with the pen, and with her life." (Glennon Doyle, number-one New York Times best-selling author of Love Warrior and president of Together Rising)

"Bowler's dry humor and raw, personal accounts help make thinking about our common fate bearable." (The Wall Street Journal)

"Bowler's lovely prose and sharp wit capture her struggle to find continued joy after her [stage IV cancer] diagnosis. This poignant look at the unpredictable promises of faith will amaze readers." (Publishers Weekly)

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just so... real.

so touching and genuine. also really helpful in dealing with grieving people. I'll certainly do it differently in the future.

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a breath of reality for suffering people

it is so refreshing to read a Christian perspective on suffering without all the "look for rainbows" glitter on poop that gets thrown about within religious circles.

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the beauty of a name

Kate, thank you for naming things. The dark things, the awkward things, and the delightfully absurd.

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Heavy handed

I was really interested in hearing the argument/critique against ‘everything happens for a reason’ and therefore enjoyed the first part of this book. The prosperity gospel was also a jaw dropping revelation. Who knew there were people out there who thought that way.

However, I really struggled with the ‘cancer’ section. The author is so heavy handed with her description of the privations and challenges. So much whinging. Could she not find/notice/share any heartwarming vignettes? She just clobbers her readers with the awfulness of it all.


It also felt like a huge amount of humble bragging about her husband and family and friends and acquaintances. She tries to sound self-deprecating but it came across to me as self-indulgent angsting.

A sense of humour would have leavened the relentless complaining and probably made me feel more sympathetic.

If you buy this book bring some gaviscon

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Heart breaking but inspiring

Kate does a great job of telling an authentic story. Warts and all. It encourages me to be more authentic myself.

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Powerful and challenging

This is not a book designed for those living with and surviving cancer. But it is for those of us who love, support and know someone with Cancer. Heartbreakingly tender, unflinching in its honesty, this book has made me reconsider how I show up for the people in my life. Would highly recommend ✨

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Not what I thought

Thought this was about how/why everything happens for a reason, the reason behind it.
But it was her life story and journey of going through cancer... sad- but interesting? Not sure!

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